| 172 | 172 | 172.绝不要与一无所有者相争 绝不要与一无所有者相争,这种抗争是不公平的。竞争的一方已丧失了所有,甚至无廉耻之心,他尽可赤膊上阵,无所顾忌。他已抛弃一切,再也没有什么可失去的,于是能目空一切,孤注一掷。绝不可拿你的名声在这种人身上下赌注。好名声得之不易,却因小事而毁于旦夕。一句恶意的诽谤,足以使辛勤换来的荣耀化为乌有。正直的人懂得利害之攸关,他懂得什么会毁坏他的名誉。正由于他谨慎从事,故能循序渐进,以便有充足的时间慎重隐退。面对险境,稍有过失,纵然获胜,也难弥补他之所失。 | 172 Never contend with a Man who has nothing to Lose; for thereby you enter into an unequal conflict. The other enters without anxiety; having lost everything, including shame, he has no further loss to fear. He therefore resorts to all kinds of insolence. One should never expose a valuable reputation to so terrible a risk, lest what has cost years to gain may be lost in a moment, since a single slight may wipe out much sweat. A man of honour and responsibility has a reputation, because he has much to lose. He balances his own and the other’s reputation: he only enters into the contest with the greatest caution, and then goes to work with such circumspection that he gives time to prudence to retire in time and bring his reputation under cover. For even by victory he cannot gain what he has lost by exposing himself to the chances of loss. |